finding a friend

Its amazing to me the things you can do on facebook, twitter, etc...reconnect with old friends or find lost family...and yet there are people that can not find a friend...maybe the problem is wher they're looking. I always think its me..when I cant figure a problem out, because I know I can change, but I can't change people or things most of the time...If I want a friend, I become what they are looking for...I meet their needs...after all, its not about me, but about them.